Some personal advice needed and lots of it!!!?

I have been with my bf for 2 years. I split with him 3 days ago but i think we are going to make a go of thinga again. The problem is we have a very healthy sex life 2-3 times a day but i want to spice it up a little. I have tried the sexy underwear, uniforms, and toys etc but need something that will keep the passion there. He isn't as adventurous as me. Help!!Some personal advice needed and lots of it!!!?
Maybe you to are just not meant to be anymore. i would say your sex life is enough for now if you have just broken up... if he wants to start being more adventurous if you to get back together, let him; but keep it on the down low for now. How about you have a break from eachother for a little while and both try and make a new start with someone similar to yourself and him.Some personal advice needed and lots of it!!!?
well to be honest it's good that you guys have 2-3 times a day but sometimes that has a double effect





maybe loose the toys and uniforms and just try making a romantic place for you two start with a talk and well then trail off slowly but very sexy tease him but with class





sometimes using less and ding it less makes that moment more try being passionate not adventourous
Variety is the spice of life... Change the scenery. Have sex outside, on the kitchen counter top, add some flavors. Try Pure Romance products... they are amazing and have changed my sex life. Try it in the shower... try different positions. Learn a strip tease. Just some suggestions.
If I were you, I would leave the sex life up to your boyfriend for awhile. Seems to me you are the control of sex and I think he needs to be. Maybe you are not suited for each other if you are not happy with his sexual tastes.
2-3 times aday...7 days a week????





u'll bore the hell outta dis guy,





go off sex...that would be spicy enuf.
This might sound weird but maybe you are just having sex too much... you might be taking the excitement out of it because it becomes a routine thing...


As far as trying new things when you are having sex, try ICE!!!!
yeah you should wait a while before you do it so anticipation builds up. uhh masturbate in the mean time. ha hope that helps.
Better get checked up. You might be a nimphomaniac
Give it a break for a while, that would be different.. two years 2to 3 times a day and anyone would tire of anyone.

Personal Advice - should I do Teach for America or get my Master's at a university?

pros of doing Teach for America:


make a big difference


learn a lot of responsibility


be on my own and working, not in school


get about $9,000 reward toward grad school


live in the same city as my bf/maybe soon fiance (we live 5hrs apart now)





pros of starting grad school for a master's in ed.


get my master's out of the way


much easier than committing to teach for america and dealing with rough students, situations, etc.


would live closer to my mom%26amp;dad and best friends


wouldnt have to move to a new city





I really want to make a difference while I'm still young, and I think I'd learn a great deal of responsibility through T4A. But it's obviously hard, and a big commitment. Any thoughts, ideas or suggestions are much appreciated.Personal Advice - should I do Teach for America or get my Master's at a university?
if i were you i would apply for both. you would be surprised at the number of people who apply for teach for america...it can be a difficult selection process, and i'm not sure how they pick. i've met a few people in the program who didn't strike me as ';able'; and i've met people who were turned away that would make awesome teachers.





if you decide on teach for america, you may also want to apply for graduate admissions in the event that teach for america doesn't work out.Personal Advice - should I do Teach for America or get my Master's at a university?
Its better to do masters in ed age is on ur side with masters u can upgrade ur skills leran new teaching approaches and change ur personality

Personal advice needed???? Please :(?

Why am i feeling this way? Someone help me?


I am a firm believer of while taking Anti-depressants you have a hard time finding attachment/love/emotions towards anything or anyone. At 23 years old I feel life has become so hard on me. I have been through many tragic events over the past 4 years, from losing my mother, grandfather and being in ICU after a bad car accident life has really been an ongoing struggle. About 3.5 years ago right after my mother passed away I began taking Anti-depressant medication first lexapro and now zoloft. Through these times I have found myself to be cold hearted and emotionless towards my family and my previous and current girl fiend. I am like a walking zombie with my arms out looking to feel some form of emotion. I pack my life with going to school, working and eating to keep away from these ongoing negative thoughts that eat at my brain on a daily basis. These obsessive thoughts are all focused on my girlfriend and I make her out to be someone she is not. When I first met her I was crazy over how she looked and treated me and now that two years have passed, its actually gotten a lot better but my mind and body will not accept it. I tell myself she is ugly, not good enough for me, and this confuses the crap out of me. If I were to draw you a person who I would want to be my wife without question it would be her. We do share the same qualities, outlooks on life and get along very well for the most part. In my past relationships and the current one, i feel the need to push people away and because I have no feelings- Its an escape from having to deal with any of this. I turn to inter coarse and other sexual activities to bring out some type of feelings. I am struggling so bad with this and it hurts so much, you have no idea. I would like to hear what you would have to say about this. I thank you very much for giving me your time. Hope to hear from you soon.





Ps: I got to counseling and my grl is away on vac for a month and the questions of wether or not I love her are still obsessive amongst my thoughts. I let her on great terms. My mind doesnt want me to have a connection- So i constantly look at other girls and compare them to her...always thinking the grass is greener on the other sidePersonal advice needed???? Please :(?
u have faced a lot of life problem and i can feel it in my mind. just ignore your previous problem and let your current matters matter! i know it is easy for me to say but try it!





i hope u will be alright soon.Personal advice needed???? Please :(?
well i've been taking anti-depressants since age 14 (17 now) i hate dthem having to depend on them for emotion an dhappiness sucked and i even thought of suicid eat one point and even no wi'm still lost co zi wonder how i'm gonna get along with ppl for th erest of my life coz i think no one likes me but all u can do is just pray and hope for the best and try to think back to a time when u were happy i know its extremely tough to lose a parent and i'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo鈥?sorry about that so very sorry my heartfelt condolences my heart goes out for u and i do know what its like ok i do coz i'm experiencing it right now but most times i take out my anger on my dressing i mourn for the life i never had i mourn for the life i want to have but dont just sit there try to help urself too it works try to tell urself that u are worth it and try to tell urself that soemone is good enough for you thats all i hope i helped a bit
were yyou ever sexuallyy abused? if so this can be a trigger.


the thoughts in yyour head cannot be sent awayy unless yyou make them.


i go through the same thing but much worse. im living in myy nightmare and cannot wake.


yyou need to talk to someone that is not a psycho-analysis-er [:


[im here if yyou do need to talk]


the feelings you are feeling are normal but need to be taken highlyy

Personal advice please help me?

Hello. I need help finding my way back to the old me. My mother passed away from cancer two days after my senior homecoming dance. She flat lined just as I was stepping off of the hospital elevators to head to her room. i heard the dispatch and was told to wait in a room. They came in and the doctor told us she began bleeding from every opening in her body (why would they tell that to a 17 year old? ) either way, initially I was devastated, but still functioning well. my final H.S. gpa was a 3.8 I was going to an excellent University and even my freshman yr college grades were decent. During the summer after my freshman year, my younger brother moved in with me (he was living with our older brother previously and things we'rent working out) Ever since my academinc performance has been unpredictable, I have horrible night mares, I'm not motivated, I skip my classes all the time because I'm afraid to put forth the effort and fail anyway, I've gained about 40 lbs (i used to weigh 120 and now I'm in the high 160s and totally disgusted with how I look and I barely eat) I have no financial or moral support and now that I am approaching graduation I feel myself falling further apary. I'm afriad. I talked to a psychiatrist once, well attempted to and couldn't speak. I had to write everything down while frantically fighting back tears, I haven't gone back since. all I want to do is lay in the bed, nothing else. I just don't care anymore. I want to, but I don't know how to anymore. I just want to be happy again. I want good grades again. I don't want my past to keep destroying my futurePersonal advice please help me?
Were you put on any anti-depressants? That may be the cause of the weight gain. As for the doctor--keep going back or try to find a support group. How long until your graduation?





You really need to go back to the doctor or find a support group. You need to get this graduation behind you--then if you can, take a little while off and really concentrate on healing yourself. Did you start taking anti-depressants?Personal advice please help me?
I think you should go back to see the psychiatrist it will help you alot .It seems that you are holding a lot of things inside that you really need to get out before it kills you. You sufferd a terrable lost that is eating away at you. So you really need to get that off your chest and maybe you can move on with your life.
Hey dude, my mom died about 14 months ago the exact same way. I am in my 40's and we all new she was fading fora month steady prior to getting that bad. we all got to say our goodbyes. We cried our tears but the devastating drama you are dealing with was not part of my grieving. I miss mom that's for sure, but i KNOW mom is in a better place. heaven. If your mom was saved then i can assure you your mom is living it up right now. If your mom was not saved i can't educate you on what her bright future may be. But to the best of my understanding she is not in hell right now as most religious people will tell you.





So to help you get back to where you want to be will come from KNOWING what so many others KNOW if you need coaching i will help all i can just email me.


Dinosaur
I am so sorry sweetie. I know you miss your mom more than your own life, but honey, your mom is still watching. She's sill there. She raised you right. Take what she gave to you and taught to you and make her proud. Talk to her anytime, anyplace. I talk to my dad ALL THE TIME. I know what he expected of me and what he taught me. Even tho he isn't here physically, he will always be in my heart, my soul and my mind. I tell him that I miss him and that I wish he was here....daily. I cry still, but Iknow it's okay. It's been 7 years since I lost my dad, and the pain is still deep, but its more of my selfish pain because I want him here. He went through alot pain before he passed. I had to look at it as him not suffering any more. I love him so dearly and I don't like to see him suffer. It hurt me more than him. Please dont give up on yourself or your brothers. You are all going through the worse pain imaginable. Stick close together, love each other and be there for each other. Strength comes in numbers. You have to go forward, because being a mother myself, I would want my sons to move forward and not give up. I pray everynight that my sons be safe, healthy, happy and for all of their dreams to come true. The same prayer everynight. I think its every mothers prayer. Don't give up the faith sweetie. Your mom would want you to be strong and know that all of her efforts weren't wasted....cuz she knows....
YOU ARE VERY DEPRESSED AND UNDERSTANDABLY SO. IT'S VERY PAINFUL TO LOSE A PARENT. THIS IS SOMETHING YOU WILL NEED HELP PULLING OUT OF. THERE ARE SUPPORT GROUPS THAT MAY BE OF HELP TO YOU. THIS IS A PART OF THE GRIEF CYCLE AND YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT. DON'T BE AFRAID TO LEAN ON YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. I m so sorry for your loss. may God help you through this. never give up on your plans and education, your mom would be proud of you.
My heart goes out to you, dear. There's no easy way to handle this. You've been through a very traumatic event. You just need to open yourself up to people. Talk to your friends, your teachers, your family. I know it's hard to express yourself sometimes. I used to write things down for my boyfriend when I wanted to tell him how I felt. It was hard for me sometimes. (I went through something traumatic as well, but nothing like your situation.)





Fortunately, this is how a normal person would react to something as serious as what happened to you. You haven't gone crazy. You're just depressed. But, it's alright. There's plenty of people out there who you can talk to if you ever need help. I know I'm a complete stranger, but if it would help just to vent, I'll listen. You need people who will listen.





This is going to take time. It won't make the pain go away or make it easier, but in time you'll find yourself again. You'll learn to love yourself. You'll start eating more, maybe diet and exercise since you aren't happy with your body image... by the way, there's nothing wrong with being 160 pounds. I weigh around 160 and I love the way I look. :)





Maybe after you find yourself again, you can try college again. You can get those grades that you know you're capable of. You can feel proud of yourself.





I wish you the very best of luck. And please, don't feel shy about talking to me randomly. If you need to get something off your chest and you don't know who else to go to, try me. I won't judge you.

Personal Advice? Should i ditch this friend?

I have a friend that I cinsider a close friend. He tells me that i Know him better than Most people. We atlk about almost everything and we have a lot in common. We both have similar pasts ( somewhat traumatic). I have known him since 2004. I am not in the same country as him(imoved in 2007).





1.Here is the problem.Between August and October he stopped talking to me, when he re-added me on MSN he said that he was going through some personal issues and that he wasnt just ignoring me but other ppl and that he was sorry.





2. A while back we were talking online and he told me that sometimes his ';best friend '; signs on to his account and pretends to be him. I was really angry about that cuz sometimes are conversations are very personal..





3 When i went home for Xmas i invited him to a houseparty. he didntshow up but he uploaded facebook pics of himself at a difrent party the same night.





when i was leaving the country i got this text ';sorry we didnt get to hang out';Personal Advice? Should i ditch this friend?
I think it would be best to ignore him for a awhile and if you do go back to talking to him do it only through phone that way you know that its him for sure but it seems that he's being a liar so talk to him tell him what's bothering you and then unless he apologizes ignore him. he obviously doesn't deserve your friendship.Personal Advice? Should i ditch this friend?
Yes. He is another waster.
U SHOULD LEAVE THAT FRIEND ALONE CAUSE APERENTLY HE DOSENT WANT 2 BE GO FRIENDS WITH U LIFE IS SHORT DONT WAST UR TIME ON STUPID STUFF LIKE THIS THERES MORE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD
From personal experience i had a similar problem. My ex-bf was very hurtful but was to naive to notice until i left him. You should do the same because like the saying says';You don't know what you got till its gone'; Sometimes it takes a massive blow to the heart to fully understand.
yea u should
I think you should, looks like he doesn't seem to be acting like one..Ignoring you, and not showing up for a party and going to another party, atleast he could have told you that he was going to another party that night.





Just move on, it could seem hard leaving someone but don't bother if the person doesn't seem to care much.





That's what happened to my friend, she hung out with us for a year and was our best friend and when we called her the next year she stopped responding and so did the other friends she introduced us too, we are much better off with her now as she wasn't even a good friend.





I'm sure you'll find a better friend.

Personal advice needed about an ex that i am now pregnant by?

ok so i was dating this guy for about 4 yrs and i thought everything was really get until one of my so called best friends started coming around. i really trusted her i told her everything, she was even the first person i told when i found out i was pregnant. well about a week later my boyfriend at the time kicked me out and i didn't have anywhere else to go but to my moms house (which lives in a different state) then later i found out that my friend had told him that i was trying to get back with one of my ex's and a bunch of other lies, and she ended up getting with my ex boyfriend, so a month went by and he broke up with her and i start talking to my ex again but didn't get back with him (the guy i am pregnant by) and i forgave her and started being friends with her again and i put my trust back in her she told me that it wouldn't happen again and she don't know why she did that and everything and she was really sorry, well it happened to me again with the same girl... and this time im not forgiving her and don't know if i should even talk to him unless it has to do with the baby.... what do u think i should do? Personal advice needed about an ex that i am now pregnant by?
Good for you believing the best about people, but she proved she's not your friend, so that's that. As for him. Do you forgive him? Don't think about the baby for a second...how are things between the two of you? If it is still good and if you would have stayed if not for your ';friend';, try to work it out. If you still love him, give your baby the best chance you can to know both its parents. Don't spend your life wondering if you could have made it work. If he is willing to work it out, try. Better to know what would happen instead of wondering ';What If?'; Good LuckPersonal advice needed about an ex that i am now pregnant by?
dont talk to her anymore, and only talk to your ex if it has to do with your kid. sorry about that, ppl are idiots.








hope i helped!
say it's your teachers baby. Sue him for sexual abuse, get money, and muy your baby a lamburguini.
Be more careful about choosing friends and once they screw you don't go back for more.
Even though it will be hard for you, it will help if you do forgive her and him. That doesn't mean you have to like them, it simply means that you're not going to let it eat away at you like a cancer. I think you are right in that you remove her out of your life, but when it comes to the father of your child you should really consider some things. For one, he is your child's father(good or bad) and there's nothing anyone can do to change that. He's going to be a part of your life no matter how minute because of legal stuff, you know....child support and possible custody issues. I would talk to him and see if he actually wants to be apart of the child's life first. As far as the romantic relationship between you and him goes, that's completely up to you. People do change, but it's is very rare. I wouldn't depend on him for support because of that unfortunate fact. If he does show some interest in the child, it might be good for the child later on. There's not really any way of knowing unless you try. Be careful and God bless!

Personal advice on army physical fitness?

I want to be at 300 by the time I ship out...which is a little over two months from now. I'm in terrible shape. As a 25 year old male and I need to do 75 army style push ups in a single set, 80 army style sit ups in a single set, and run 2 miles in 13 minutes flat. After testing myself I did 30 army style pushups in a single set, 20 army style sit ups in a single set and ran a mile in 7 minutes. Can I do it with the time alloted, and if so, any tips or advice?Personal advice on army physical fitness?
Check out this website for military work outs and tips.


http://www.military.com/military-fitness鈥?/a>Personal advice on army physical fitness?
My advice is to work out and trust that the Drills will smoke the everliving hell out of you, and you will pass.
You don't have to do it in a single set, really... there are authorized rest positions. You can use the entire two minutes.

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