Breast implants? i need personal advice.?

ok so i'm 16 and i wasn't exactly bless with a nice bust. i tell my self everyday that i'm beautiful the way God made me but i end up wishing i was bigger all over again.





I got them from my dad side cuz they are small, but my moms are like DD+ on her side of her family. If i don't grow by the time i'm 18 i'm considering implants.





If you ever had them did you like your results? how was the recovery? and any other info you want to chime in.(positive please)





i'm 5';0 tall around 130 pounds i got thick calves and thighs(that's where most of my weight is) i'm a medium frame with a short body. what would be a good size for me? i'm a 34 A.





i absolutely love myself but finding clothes that capture my small but beautiful breast is like mission impossible. and push up bras only work if you have enough to push up.Breast implants? i need personal advice.?
Trust me - you're better without implants. Less complications %26amp; nature always looks far better than plastic.





You're only 16, so there's likely a chance that you're still growing. You might not grow by much, though your body will eventually stable out (your hormones can cause some crazy changes like weight fluctuations etc - when you're a bit older %26amp; your hormones calm down, your body will grow into it's new shape)





Don't worry about them. Try figuring out how to dress to emphasise your bust %26amp; slim down your lower half. Ask for other people's opinion, as you're probably exaggerating your own image (we all do it :D)





Things will get better with time, honestly.





P.S: Be glad that you don't need to suffer with larger breasts - they constantly need tied down %26amp; you need to be careful what exercises you do. You're limited to only some clothing. They're overrated :)Breast implants? i need personal advice.?
A C cup max would be ok for you. I'm not sure because you're pretty short, but solidly built. A plastic surgeon could make an accurate estimate for you.
I have never had implants, but I am a natural DD, and I am personally so envious of you! I have the opposite problem in that it seems like all of the clothes in the world are made with an A cup in mind. I would say to wait a while, and if you still want them in your 20s to go ahead and get them. And remember, lots of the time having a baby will cause your breasts to grow, so keep that in mind if you're planning on having kids.

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Need advice on personal issue?

I keep thinking that everyone is against me. When I go to a meeting or attend school, i often have trouble focusing, and listening to what is being said, because i am constantly paranoid about what what other people are thinking about me. Consequenly I often react in anger, hostility, and a condenscating manner to others. How do i fix this?Need advice on personal issue?
You should read A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. It is your ego that is making you feel this way and he will teach you how to recognize that. It is a very selfish thing to think that everyone is thinking about you all the time. Everytime I do something stupid or say something I wish I hadn't, and I get paranoid and dwell on it, I remember that the other person is not going to go to bed and think about my words/action before they fall asleep! People think more about themselves. You are assuming that everyone is talking or thinking about you...and ASSUME only makes an *** out of U and ME.Need advice on personal issue?
don't be a grouch.





i doubt everyones against you.





try to enjoy life.





noone likes grouchy people.


:]

This is kinda personal advice..but still help please):?

well..i currently livee in the neighborhood that i dont like..and like


i hate it here..and ive been here since i was little


and now heres a new year


and i want to leave


my friends that i thought were my friends..are deffinetly NOT my friends..and i wanna move to this other area..where there are people that ive known since i was little..and i wanna move there and start new. I think my dad knows about it, and hes mentioned it..and the way he says it..it makes it sound like hes gonna do something about it..but then..so far..nothing's happened. and its pretty sad.. im kinda worried to talk to him about it..cause im scared to hear an answer thats just gonna make me sad..but i really want to move..so what do i do? ): This is kinda personal advice..but still help please):?
Regardless you should just talk to your father but its really hard to imagine your dads going to up and leave all because his little girl is having issues. Have you tried resolving your issues and making it the best for YOURSELF?!?!

Relationship/personal advice... long winded but please read?

22 yr old graduating college male, recently had a mutual break up with a college gf of 7 months. ONLY reason for this is that she is going abroad in the fall which means I wont see her for summer, fall, or Xmas break (8 months). We had no conflicts for the entire time we were together. We left it open to get back together but made no promises. I am having a really hard time dealing with this because of the circumstances surrounding it. I broke up with a gf of 3.5 years about 20 months ago and it took a year to get over. This is much easier yet it feels different because the other girl and I loved each other but were just not right even after so long together. With this girl all was right and we just weren't allowed to let things go where i think they would have.





1. Do I take time off, focus on work and wait for her to come back or wait until someone comes along?


2. How do I stop getting so attached ie change something integral about me that ends up causing me a lot of pain?Relationship/personal advice... long winded but please read?
Learn to live your life for you....It sounds simple, yet is soo complex. If you live your life for others, you tend to become reliant on them to ';complete'; you. Work on yourself first, I was in a very similar situation when I got out of college. If I would have spent time on myself, and stop worrying about girls...I would have been much better off. The whole girl thing will work itself out....nature ditates it. (You can't force it) Good luck brother!Relationship/personal advice... long winded but please read?
Try to think positive. Dont think about how bad its going to be without her. POsitive mind about this situation would help you to know if THIS GIRL if the girl you want to be with.


Try to take all this time, like vacations. Make something new, meet new people, and dont make expectations about future. Just live your life RIGHT NOW.


Maybe you are going to feel empty, cuz u were spending time with someone that is not there anymore.


keep your mind busy, its the only way to feel better.


Good Luck!!

Some personal advice needed and lots of it!!!?

I have been with my bf for 2 years. I split with him 3 days ago but i think we are going to make a go of thinga again. The problem is we have a very healthy sex life 2-3 times a day but i want to spice it up a little. I have tried the sexy underwear, uniforms, and toys etc but need something that will keep the passion there. He isn't as adventurous as me. Help!!Some personal advice needed and lots of it!!!?
Maybe you to are just not meant to be anymore. i would say your sex life is enough for now if you have just broken up... if he wants to start being more adventurous if you to get back together, let him; but keep it on the down low for now. How about you have a break from eachother for a little while and both try and make a new start with someone similar to yourself and him.Some personal advice needed and lots of it!!!?
well to be honest it's good that you guys have 2-3 times a day but sometimes that has a double effect





maybe loose the toys and uniforms and just try making a romantic place for you two start with a talk and well then trail off slowly but very sexy tease him but with class





sometimes using less and ding it less makes that moment more try being passionate not adventourous
Variety is the spice of life... Change the scenery. Have sex outside, on the kitchen counter top, add some flavors. Try Pure Romance products... they are amazing and have changed my sex life. Try it in the shower... try different positions. Learn a strip tease. Just some suggestions.
If I were you, I would leave the sex life up to your boyfriend for awhile. Seems to me you are the control of sex and I think he needs to be. Maybe you are not suited for each other if you are not happy with his sexual tastes.
2-3 times aday...7 days a week????





u'll bore the hell outta dis guy,





go off sex...that would be spicy enuf.
This might sound weird but maybe you are just having sex too much... you might be taking the excitement out of it because it becomes a routine thing...


As far as trying new things when you are having sex, try ICE!!!!
yeah you should wait a while before you do it so anticipation builds up. uhh masturbate in the mean time. ha hope that helps.
Better get checked up. You might be a nimphomaniac
Give it a break for a while, that would be different.. two years 2to 3 times a day and anyone would tire of anyone.

Personal Advice - should I do Teach for America or get my Master's at a university?

pros of doing Teach for America:


make a big difference


learn a lot of responsibility


be on my own and working, not in school


get about $9,000 reward toward grad school


live in the same city as my bf/maybe soon fiance (we live 5hrs apart now)





pros of starting grad school for a master's in ed.


get my master's out of the way


much easier than committing to teach for america and dealing with rough students, situations, etc.


would live closer to my mom%26amp;dad and best friends


wouldnt have to move to a new city





I really want to make a difference while I'm still young, and I think I'd learn a great deal of responsibility through T4A. But it's obviously hard, and a big commitment. Any thoughts, ideas or suggestions are much appreciated.Personal Advice - should I do Teach for America or get my Master's at a university?
if i were you i would apply for both. you would be surprised at the number of people who apply for teach for america...it can be a difficult selection process, and i'm not sure how they pick. i've met a few people in the program who didn't strike me as ';able'; and i've met people who were turned away that would make awesome teachers.





if you decide on teach for america, you may also want to apply for graduate admissions in the event that teach for america doesn't work out.Personal Advice - should I do Teach for America or get my Master's at a university?
Its better to do masters in ed age is on ur side with masters u can upgrade ur skills leran new teaching approaches and change ur personality

Personal advice needed???? Please :(?

Why am i feeling this way? Someone help me?


I am a firm believer of while taking Anti-depressants you have a hard time finding attachment/love/emotions towards anything or anyone. At 23 years old I feel life has become so hard on me. I have been through many tragic events over the past 4 years, from losing my mother, grandfather and being in ICU after a bad car accident life has really been an ongoing struggle. About 3.5 years ago right after my mother passed away I began taking Anti-depressant medication first lexapro and now zoloft. Through these times I have found myself to be cold hearted and emotionless towards my family and my previous and current girl fiend. I am like a walking zombie with my arms out looking to feel some form of emotion. I pack my life with going to school, working and eating to keep away from these ongoing negative thoughts that eat at my brain on a daily basis. These obsessive thoughts are all focused on my girlfriend and I make her out to be someone she is not. When I first met her I was crazy over how she looked and treated me and now that two years have passed, its actually gotten a lot better but my mind and body will not accept it. I tell myself she is ugly, not good enough for me, and this confuses the crap out of me. If I were to draw you a person who I would want to be my wife without question it would be her. We do share the same qualities, outlooks on life and get along very well for the most part. In my past relationships and the current one, i feel the need to push people away and because I have no feelings- Its an escape from having to deal with any of this. I turn to inter coarse and other sexual activities to bring out some type of feelings. I am struggling so bad with this and it hurts so much, you have no idea. I would like to hear what you would have to say about this. I thank you very much for giving me your time. Hope to hear from you soon.





Ps: I got to counseling and my grl is away on vac for a month and the questions of wether or not I love her are still obsessive amongst my thoughts. I let her on great terms. My mind doesnt want me to have a connection- So i constantly look at other girls and compare them to her...always thinking the grass is greener on the other sidePersonal advice needed???? Please :(?
u have faced a lot of life problem and i can feel it in my mind. just ignore your previous problem and let your current matters matter! i know it is easy for me to say but try it!





i hope u will be alright soon.Personal advice needed???? Please :(?
well i've been taking anti-depressants since age 14 (17 now) i hate dthem having to depend on them for emotion an dhappiness sucked and i even thought of suicid eat one point and even no wi'm still lost co zi wonder how i'm gonna get along with ppl for th erest of my life coz i think no one likes me but all u can do is just pray and hope for the best and try to think back to a time when u were happy i know its extremely tough to lose a parent and i'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo鈥?sorry about that so very sorry my heartfelt condolences my heart goes out for u and i do know what its like ok i do coz i'm experiencing it right now but most times i take out my anger on my dressing i mourn for the life i never had i mourn for the life i want to have but dont just sit there try to help urself too it works try to tell urself that u are worth it and try to tell urself that soemone is good enough for you thats all i hope i helped a bit
were yyou ever sexuallyy abused? if so this can be a trigger.


the thoughts in yyour head cannot be sent awayy unless yyou make them.


i go through the same thing but much worse. im living in myy nightmare and cannot wake.


yyou need to talk to someone that is not a psycho-analysis-er [:


[im here if yyou do need to talk]


the feelings you are feeling are normal but need to be taken highlyy