Friday, January 8, 2010

Personal Advice? help me?

Ok i'm having trouble with a guy and well here is the whole thing: ( im not telling you people his name)i started liking him like 1 week ago and he i think i know that he likes me and he has brown eyes and we stare at each other and i usually look away and when i got off the bus i said happy birthday because it was his birthday and he was starring at me and i know i don't know what to do so please tell me what to doPersonal Advice? help me?
Okay you are having trouble with a guy? What is the trouble? You think he likes you? You stare at each other? You don't know what to do?





Take it easy kiddo, he isn't going anywhere and you need to slow the heck down! Enjoy the moment and wait for him to make that move - if you do then he will never get to the place where he realizes he wants to be with you... meaning he will always say he did it for you, not because he liked you as much as you liked him.





Meanwhile, try to show him that he isn't all that, make him more anxious (not with other guys, just that you want to seem less preoccupied with him than you really are). Try not staring as much at the times when he expects you to stare at/with him. Try to stare only for 2 seconds then look away off to a door, then your watch, then by that time you should have had time to compose yourself. He will see that he is not all that and, in desperation, do something eager like... ask you out or something!





If nothing happens in 2 days, go to him and ask him out! If he has reservations about going out with you then good, things are at least out in the open and you can begin to breath again - you were mistaken.Personal Advice? help me?
Probably he was to surprised and he couldn't say anything , in this case don't worry, but if he didn't wanted to be seen with you, then you should be worried because he acted like he didn't knew you
Just keep saying Hello to him. A conversation will eventually strike up and you are off and running.

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