Personal advice needed about an ex that i am now pregnant by?

ok so i was dating this guy for about 4 yrs and i thought everything was really get until one of my so called best friends started coming around. i really trusted her i told her everything, she was even the first person i told when i found out i was pregnant. well about a week later my boyfriend at the time kicked me out and i didn't have anywhere else to go but to my moms house (which lives in a different state) then later i found out that my friend had told him that i was trying to get back with one of my ex's and a bunch of other lies, and she ended up getting with my ex boyfriend, so a month went by and he broke up with her and i start talking to my ex again but didn't get back with him (the guy i am pregnant by) and i forgave her and started being friends with her again and i put my trust back in her she told me that it wouldn't happen again and she don't know why she did that and everything and she was really sorry, well it happened to me again with the same girl... and this time im not forgiving her and don't know if i should even talk to him unless it has to do with the baby.... what do u think i should do? Personal advice needed about an ex that i am now pregnant by?
Good for you believing the best about people, but she proved she's not your friend, so that's that. As for him. Do you forgive him? Don't think about the baby for a second...how are things between the two of you? If it is still good and if you would have stayed if not for your ';friend';, try to work it out. If you still love him, give your baby the best chance you can to know both its parents. Don't spend your life wondering if you could have made it work. If he is willing to work it out, try. Better to know what would happen instead of wondering ';What If?'; Good LuckPersonal advice needed about an ex that i am now pregnant by?
dont talk to her anymore, and only talk to your ex if it has to do with your kid. sorry about that, ppl are idiots.








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say it's your teachers baby. Sue him for sexual abuse, get money, and muy your baby a lamburguini.
Be more careful about choosing friends and once they screw you don't go back for more.
Even though it will be hard for you, it will help if you do forgive her and him. That doesn't mean you have to like them, it simply means that you're not going to let it eat away at you like a cancer. I think you are right in that you remove her out of your life, but when it comes to the father of your child you should really consider some things. For one, he is your child's father(good or bad) and there's nothing anyone can do to change that. He's going to be a part of your life no matter how minute because of legal stuff, you know....child support and possible custody issues. I would talk to him and see if he actually wants to be apart of the child's life first. As far as the romantic relationship between you and him goes, that's completely up to you. People do change, but it's is very rare. I wouldn't depend on him for support because of that unfortunate fact. If he does show some interest in the child, it might be good for the child later on. There's not really any way of knowing unless you try. Be careful and God bless!