Really personal advice question?

Ok the last serious question i have posted was about me and my then fiance well not anymore, well we went through with the wedding then turned around and had it annulled. He dissapeared 4 a few days and when he came back he told me he had been seeing sum1 since september. He has known her 4 a long time and they recently started dating anyway i tlked 2 his fam and they all kno hes confused and really cares 4 me but he just isnt sure what he wants to do. I ve done everything from begging him 2 stay (i kno how stupid it sounds now) to giving him distance to coming back 2 him 4 quickies and telling him that i could let him explore as long as he came bac 1 day. but now i wanna kno wut i should do cause i love him more than life itself, he was my 1st boyfriend and my high school sweetheart and im not ready 2 let that go just yet also our honeymoon flight was scheduled 2 leave tomorrow . It would have been earlier but due to training at work it had 2 be delayed so how do i cope?Really personal advice question?
Oh my goodness girl! If I were closer I think I would try to shake some brains into you. Get some self respect and kick this wacko guy to the curb. He's outrageous!!! No one should settle for the arrangements that you have suggested. Share him with her? I don't think so! Have you heard of STDs and HIV?????Tell him this is Absolutely not an option.





You will NEVER, ever, ever be able to trust a nut like him. You have to tell him to go straight to hell.......or go with her, or wherever the hell he wants to go just so long as he leaves you in peace. If he ever contacts you again you should call the police and report him as a stalker. Or you can just tell me and I will press charges on him your behalf. This guy is a leech, a creep, a moral degenerate, and he is not good enough for you to wipe your feet on his back. Dump him immediately!!! He has to go. You can and will get over him. The best way to get over him is to replace him as fast as possible with a better guy.





You are beautiful and you can do much better than this. There are a lot of nice and sincere guys out there who would cherish you.Really personal advice question?
Alright then!You know how you see them old couples together?It's because they where meant be from the beginning.You can wait on that guy and maybe you can stomach being a footstool but you won't be HAPPY.Girls are god's gift to men,and like wise.Don't settle for less than you want.
time will heal those wounds. but for now take the honeymoon with out and do some prowling of your own maybe you will find someone else there or maybe you will forget your worries and just rest and relax and have fun.
If you are ok with never being able to trust him, stick with it, because you obviously sound like you have no self esteem whatsoever
so long i feel asleep in the middle
leave him behind
HON, YOUR GIVING HIM HIS CAKE,AND LETTING HIM EAT IT TO.


YOU DON'T REALLY WANT TO ALLOW HIM TO HAVE OTHER WOMEN IN HIS LIFE.


THAT MEANS YOUR ROLLING OVER, AND ALLOWING HIM TO HAVE THE POWER TO ABUSE YOU.


IN THIS DAY ,AND AGE YOU SHOULD BE AFRAID OF HIM BEING WITH OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE OF ALL THOSE DECEASES OUT THERE. YOU NEVER GET OVER YOUR FIRST LOVE, BUT HOW MUCH LOVE IS THERE IF YOU HAVEN'T EVEN GONE ON YOUR HONEYMOON YET.


YOU HAVEN'T EVEN HAD A LIFE TOGETHER,AND HE'S ALREADY LOOKING ELSE WHERE.


DO YOU REALLY WAN,T A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME ONE WHO DOESN'T REALLY RESPECT YOU.


I MEAN ITS SO EARLY FOR THAT KIND OF THING, DO YOU THINK YOU CAN PUT UP WITH IT FOREVER!


YOUR GIVING IN TO SO MUCH NOW.


WHATS IT GONNA BE LIKE 5 YEARS FROM NOW.


THE SENARIO YOUR HEADED FOR IS LOW SELF ESTEEM,


SEVERE DEPRESSION ECT.


LAY DOWN SOME RULES, IF YOU DECIDE THAT YOU WILL ALLOW THIS, THEN SET GROUND RULES LIKE YOU SHOULD BE EQUAL.


LIKE AN OPEN MARRIAGE.


WHATS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER.


I RECOMMEND THAT YOU SIT DOWN AND LOOK AT THE WHOLE PICTURE BEFORE YOU MAKE THAT DECISION.


IT WON'T BE EASY ANYWAY ,BUT TO GO THROUGH A MARRIAGE LIKE THAT IT WILL ONLY GET HARDER.


HOPE THIS HELPS YOU HON.


HAVE A GREAT XMAS.
You do not call or contact him. You gain some confidence in yourself. Do eveyrthing you can to get out of the house and be with friends. ABOVE ALL do not beg or tell them that you'll accept his ';exloring';. People are attracted to those who posess qualities that they would like to have themselves. Project an air of confidence and assure him that you will accept nothing less than a committed and serious relationship.


Once you get over the honeymoon dates it will get a little easier but there is nothing that you can do to control the situation now. Do things to take care of yourself and unfortunately, once you are over him he will probably be running back to you. Hopefully you will say no.
You should just leave him if hes that low to cheat on you for some tramp then let him, you are better than that!! You need someone that will treat you right, A REAL MAN. Not some loser.
omg. marry him and i hope you got all the boinking out of your system.
sorry I stopped reading when I read that you spelled ';someone'; like ';sum1';
this is all a matter of how you feel due to teh trust violation. This is all how you feel emotionaly and no one else can really help you with this one....hope you make the right choice.
leave his sry butt, he doesn't deserve you. you seem like a classy good looking woman who is intellegent, there is no reason you should't be able to find a new guy.... there r a lot of fish in the ocean, time for you to cast out another line
I am going to be honest with you. I dont think you should marry him. I know that you love him so very much but from his actions he obviously doesn't feel as you do, even if he says so. I man that loves you will not cheat or be confused...he should no already and want to be with you forever. Dont beg him ever again, stay strong in front of him and let him live his own life without you...he does not deserve your love and you deserve sooo much better. I know that you have been together since high school but everything you said about him sounds so wrong. He does not love you or respect you enough and how can you trust him? Caring for you is not enough he should love you and need you in his life. Dont let him walk all over you!





I hope you do the right thing...good luck!
Sorry, this calls for a Dr. Phil moment. Love is too confusing, I'd rather try to figure out Calculus.
WHAT are you trying to ask?? You need to improve your punctuation and spelling skills
Girl love should never ever ever ever be this complicated. Love should be as naturally as breathing. Take it from someone who has been there and done that.
go take your vacation, you deserve it after all the stress you have been through. but kick this guy to the curb asap! he is making a fool and his own lap dog out of you! he obviously doesn't love you, to do this to you! don't put up with this kind of sh@#! get yourself a real man!
oh god i know exactly how that goes engaged to a guy at 16 bipolar guy wouldnt keeps his hands off his ex


i still love him hun and im with someone else and its been years


it doesnt go aaway and thats ok dont push him out of your life unless you feel thats the only option nut if you can be strong enough to see him just as a friend then i suggest that scott and i are close but he knows im not his and i feel better knowing that someone i cared so deeply about can still be in my life