Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Men i need yoru personal advice,,, Woman too..Troubles iwth fiance?

So what exactly does it mean to take a break? is a break permanent? or temporarily until you want that person again. My fiance of a year after a very bad arguement said that we needed to take a break for at least a week. and took some of his things to his moms where hes staying.. i told him to get out and that it was over because he wanted to do drugs. which in all reality i just jumped the gun and over reacted i didnt even talk to him about it i just started screaming... anyway i want this relationship to last we are like best friends and he is my everything. I miss him so much tomorrow wil be a week.. he said he still hasnt decided when i asked him if we were over or not. any advice i love him with all my heart. im a aquarius female and he is a capricorn male. We have been living together also.. Today he told one his friends that he had broken up with me but he really never did. Does this mean were over, is he going to break up with me??Men i need yoru personal advice,,, Woman too..Troubles iwth fiance?
He needs some time to think things through. Maybe he saw a side of you that he didn't like and it's not willing to put up with it. I'm not saying it was your fault. It's all gonna come up with what he decides. I mean you can tell him how you feel and that you've realized how much you missed him and want him in your life.Men i need yoru personal advice,,, Woman too..Troubles iwth fiance?
I just answered your similar question. You're supporting him financially? He won't break up with you.
From beginning to end, it seems as though you really need to make a decision and go on with your life. Because you sound like a pretty intelligent female, who is not dependent, but independent. First of all, there is no jumping the gun to drug use (especially when you are not using), it seems to me that the drugs are more important to him than your happiness or the relationship. Action speaks louder than words, if he said to his friends it was over, has he shown you any different? If not then guess what? Its over!!! Being by his side after that terrible accident was not a wake up call as to how you feel about him, then nothing you do is going to make him happy, so do yourself and everyone else who loves you a favor, get on with your life, and dump that loser, because it sounds as though you have done more than your share. Stop allowing him to make you miserable, because he is...As the saying goes ';misery loves company.'; Good Luck, but most important go on with your life. There are other fish in the sea. Another popular saying, ';you never miss your water, until your well runs dry.';
You need to move on Drugs and fighting is that what you want forever? He needs to realize you deserve better! He needs counseling and you need to move on. A break is a pause. Its where you go over everything,think things through re-evaluate everything! He may be dating someone else or He is just wanting to keep you on hold!

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